Change your thoughts for dating online with girls

I have a quite interesting story to put forth in front of you all. All the mills and boon lovers will definitely love this relationship ( ความสัมพันธ์ ) of a friend of mine who was a Canada return to Germany. He basically hated Thai girls; he believed that they are stubborn and immature and did not have the sensibility that is expected from a girl. But who knows when and where life teaches lessons and makes them happen anytime and anywhere fall in love with anyone.

He was called Ricky by his friends and family, as that is what his name was, man...! So where was I? Yeah, Ricky was the guy who was born and brought up till the age of 15, in Germany and all the guys in his contact was either ditched or cheated by girls so that is where his misconception for german girls began. And thus he personally believed in staying away from these girls. He did his further studies in Canada as his parents split and he stayed with his dad at his dad’s native, again his mum was a Thai personality. Again his bitterness encroached in him. This was never replaced until he joined a dating site which was a Thai site which his friend made him join so as to do his part of pass time while at work. But he was not at all serious for anyone he talked except for a ‘lady in black’, yes that was her name online. She talked to her online for hours, her talk seemed too enchanting for him and he was really impressed by the way she logged in for a healthy conversation, just like he wanted a girl to be. All the matured mind set, broad thinking towards life, a positive attitude for life etc just seemed to be in place but again his interest got a step back when he realized her to be a Thai girl, again the fears molded up in his mind that he had earlier. This might sound to be a bit odd to you, but guys generally have such small fears or phobias, here it is for cheating girls but for someone else it might be bad food, ill services in hotels, new novels, they just won’t try anything that is feared for them in mind to get disappointed and will rather stay with what they generally prefer.

So coming to Ricky, he was forced to change his mind set for Germany girls and had to give this mates ( เนื้อคู่ ) a chance as already it was high time he stayed single….! This gave him a new phase for life and he definitely took the risk of making it happen.

Dating after 50 is just cool

Dating has no age bar or a particular limit like retirement. It is the right of every human being. Just like no one can control the fact that the person be fall for someone or not but it is always a prestige to fall in love if its twice, thrice or even more…does not matter. So with no age bar, the dating websites have also come up with really good offers for the senior dating people who can have the liberty to choose their love life or date online with no brows raised.

If she/he is from your neighborhood and if she/he is the mate of your extra French classes, or a companion to your morning walk in the park, then just cut the cake of dating websites and ask them out. Feeling lonely at the age of 50 is something that has only one solution and that is not being lonely or having a friend that can know you and spend some quality time with you for sure. The trend of Big Boys ( หนุ่มใหญ่ ) is slowly getting geared and people are looking forward for the better versions of websites everyday and millions of oldies get registered for free to begin their renewed love life online. Mr. Marilyn was such a person I knew who always had this spirit of taking life on their stride and learning from it every minute and every second. But his life got stagnant when his first wife, Lola, died due to cancer. She was his only support for his old age and dreamed of spending the rest of the remaining life with each other in their farm house.

But she, as always a perfect and caring wife she was, knew that her death was near and that her husband is going to face a lifetime trauma due to her death. Thus she had managed to convince her younger sister, Rita, who was an unmarried and old professor whop spend her life bringing up her adopted child. But now he being settled and well equipped for life, Lola thought of making her husband’s rest of the life fruitful and tension free. She asked her sister to find Marilyn on the online dating site and propose him, which did happen after her death.

Once when he was just checking through his mails, he got a request from this lady and he recognized her to be his wife’s sister, he started chatting and talking which then lead to fill up his emptiness just like his Lola used to do and then her sister carried forwards the talks and chats giving him enough space and making him comfortable to talk as a supportive friend. This is how dating advice ( คำแนะนำ ) of her sis came handy for both loners.

Get the relationship cautiously through dating

One can easily get into relations through Internet dating site and when you are on your first date you would be in head over heels mood! Isn't it? It might be your very long awaited man's words “Shall we meet at-------?" and instantly you might have said "sure, Why not?" Now it is all good and fun up to this part of your commitment. Well relationship and even marriage can turn out in the long run. You might have thought such long dreamy tales for a long time in your life, though. However one needs to be cautious.

Cautious, in the sense you need to be careful while dealing with the dating thing. It is true you might have communicated for days/months online and plenty of emails must have been sent between you both. Even both of you might have spent hours together on the phone. It is really very nice of you both but and this is a strong but "Do be careful in your first date”. Women, the fair sex are mostly sentimental in their feelings and when you as a woman is on your first date never opt for a private place for meeting. You can rather choose public places like coffee bar/restaurant/KFC's anything of your liking and never agree to meet a new person in his private guest house/beach house and so on. Try your best to stay in busy places as there would be lots of people and you can easily call for help if situation demands you to do so! It is also better to have your parents close by and they can also come for rescue in dire situations. 

 

Secondly be careful of the food/drink you take in. Yes, try not to get too much drunk that might lead you to lose your senses. Also never consume food/drink anything that has been left unattended. You never know what might have been mixed inside the drink/food when you were away. Many due to their carelessness in their first date have their own aversions to men /dating. In order to prevent such recurrences in your life try to be on the safe side always. Even if you both want to go for an evening stroll after your meals try to do so in the main road pavements. Finally it is very important that you must listen to your own selves. Yes, your mind is the better judge. In case you are uncomfortable/feel something fishy in the man’s actions immediately take steps to leave that place quickly. You can always say your own excuses for your departure and be out off the scene in no time! The main thing in relations through internet dating site ( อินเตอร์เนตเดทติ้งเวบไซต์ ) is the creation of relationship ( ความสัมพันธ์ ) and marriage in the end. However be safe /confident as well as cautious when introduced to new strange men though online Internet dating sites.

Maintain a Long Distance Relationship Online in Thailand

Get more Closer with your partner through dating web site for free

Thai men and Thai women looks un- smart when separated, but they look very much elegant when they are involved in love relationship. But what happens if these Thai couples get separated. In other words, if one of these couple either the Thai man or woman get relocated in any other Thai city for any personal reasons or gets a job in other Thai town, the million dollar questions that creeps in ones mind is ,“Will their long distance Relationship sustain?” And if the relationship is sustained “How will this Thai couple maintain their long distance relationship?” According to a latest studies made by Center for Study for long distance relationship, Thailand, there is a false myths that is blowing between these Thai couples is that excessive work pressure has just ruined their love and also blew apart their long distance relationship apart. If that was the reasons for their break-ups then how come there are 100 and 1000’s of Thai couples out there who despite of their long distance relationship are happy and some of these are married and well settled too.

Online dating site : Express your feelings in writing

To maintain this long distance relationship in Thailand is not simple but in the same way is not complicated either. There are some of the ways mentioned below. Hope these ways might ease up your tension, if you are too caught in the web and thriving hard to sustain your long distance relationships. These are as follows:

• If you are meeting for the first time as friends and suddenly from the first month itself your friend can be your life time partner whom you want to get married and enjoy a well settled life, then you have to be brave enough and have to express your heart out to your mates. If you are not feeling comfortable yourself you can take help of various Thai online dating community sites and express your feelings in writing. You should look more to share the day talking, chatting with your Thai mate both offline and online ( ออนไลน์ );

• Your expectations about the relationship should clear-cut. In other ways, you and your mate are settled in two different Thai cities, if there is no contact between two of you or are not making strategies for your future, than your love relationship would die within six months. So, if you want to sustain your relationship, you can opt for online dating community sites and talk vigorously through various Thai dating Web site for free ( เวบไซต์ฟรี );

• The third part is very important for both of you as it is related to your freedom. After you both are married and due to some work or professional purposes have to stay apart. Studies suggest that living separately and sustaining long distance relationships helps in growth and bondage of love between the couples. Over that living independently also helps you both in growing big in status in your professional fields;

• Keeping trust and faith over one another holds the key. You never know that what your mate is doing in the other Thai city and due to work you are not able to connect him/her over phone. So, confusion can creep into your head easily. In that case, you can stay connected with Thai online dating community sites and solve your confusion and feel happy;

• Lastly, now a day’s all Thai online dating community sites have web cam facilities. If you feel that you have not seen your married wife/ husband for long and is missing her/him desperately you can feel each other through seeing, loving via chatting and get the latest.

These are some of the ways. Hope you will like them.

Enjoy Thai dating and find out your pair

Thai web site for free ( เวบไซต์ฟรี ) dating

Causal dating advice is not a thing seen with whimsical attitude by many these days. Thailand is a very beautiful country. In Thai dating is not seen as something to be ridiculed. Yes we do see many Thai both single as well as divorced engrossed busily dating guys/gals of their own age. It might seem strange for many and one can easily understand that most of the Thai are very polite in nature. Their politeness would be so much to the extent that they would never seem to tell others the mistakes they have done. This can be seen when one reads the notes of the Thai in their forums offering romantic tips.

Find pair ( คู่ที่เหมาะสมกัน ) your special someone

In case you are a single guy/gal looking out for some casual dating advice tips then you can buy books by popular authors on "How to have a healthy relationship? The Ways to make Him/her Crazy in the first date?"Now we need to understand that as a happy guy/gal you would love to have a person interested in you as you really are. The little notes of interesting love poems can be just put into the girl's handbags /boy's wallet so that he/she understands that the other one loves and thinks more about him/her. Mostly there are varied online dating sites which are just filled with the profiles of single Thai which can be accessed right in the comfort of your home. Now if you like to go to Thailand and find out ( คู่ที่เหมาะสมกัน ) your special someone by yourselves then that too is never going to be a problem. Isn’t it?

Always remember that dating with your special one is fun but yes for your own sake please do drop the sub hints communicating to your date your intentions. This might not be /cannot be just dictated to the other. The more intellectual relationship one has for the other is good but destroying your own individuality for the other is certainly not the base for a healthy relationship. Just try to figure out what might you both be interested in? Are you both willing to have a long term committed relationship? /Are you both willing to have just a physical relationship? These are just a few things you both need to be clear.

In Thai web site for free ( เวบไซต์ฟรี ) dating one can note that serial monogamy combined with casual attitudes about relationships/sex has been the major practices from the early teens. It seemed to be very easy to find pair ( คู่ที่เหมาะสมกัน ) in romantic context but it is also cautious to know causal dating advice to get things started in the long run!